Be Supported by our Community

All support groups are virtual

Our groups fill fast! Call us today 847.328.0313 to join a group.

Facing separation, contemplating options, taking a first step toward a divorce or trekking through a divorce

can be a challenging, isolating, and sometimes a vulnerable period in your life.

Be Supported!

Lilac Tree Support Groups are:

  • Peer-based Support Groups offering emotional shelter and respite in a compassionate, safe, structured, and supportive environment,

  • Always Virtual and never recorded keeping you safe and confidential.

  • Facilitated by our experienced and qualified Lilac Tree Counselors who are Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSW).

  • Empowering! Finding community, friendship and support from other people at the same stage of the process, facing similar challenges provides a supportive and positive environment from which to share, learn and grow.

  • For Anyone, Any Stage of the Process. We offer Support Groups regardless of gender identity, however, each group is single gender.

  • Cost Accessible at $45 a meeting. Fee Assistance is available on a limited first come, first served for each group.

  • Limited in Size and Varied in Length. We offer 4-week, 6-week and 8-week groups, as well as topical groups occasionally.

We are always building and filling new groups!

Always call for the most current groups available and status or to be added to the waitlist for priority registration for the next group 847-328-0313, and consider an Information Session appointment in the meantime for immediate support.

For Women - Contemplating

Currently Filling: **New Group***

  • THURSDAY Lunchtime - Starts NOVEMBER/DECEMBER - General Group: Contemplating (or facing) Separation / Divorce 12pm - 1pm (4 weeks) $45 per meeting, total cost $180 ***only 2 spaces open!

For Women - In The Process

Currently Filling:

  • FRIDAY Mornings - Starts NOV 7 - TOPIC Group: Later in Life 10am - 11:30am (6 weeks) $45 per meeting, total cost $270. (6 weeks only). ***JUST CLOSED - group is FULL.

  • MONDAY Mornings - Starts ASAP - TOPIC Group: Mothers in the Process 10am - 11:30am (8 weeks) $45 per meeting, total cost $360. ***NEW Group - 4 spaces open

  • THURSDAY Afternoons - Starts ASAP - General Group: In the Process 4pm - 5:30pm (8 weeks) $45 per meeting, total cost $360. ***NEW Group - 6 spaces open

For All Women - Leaving a Narcissist

  • THURSDAY Afternoons Starts JANUARY 2026 4pm - 5:30pm (8 weeks) $45 per meeting, total cost $360. ***NEW GROUP - just opened - 7 spaces open

For Men - Contemplating / About to Start the Process

  • WEDNESDAY Lunchtimes - ASAP once full - GENERAL Group: Contemplating / Starting Separation or Divorce 12noon - 1:30pm (4 weeks) $45 per meeting,


Extra things to know about our Support Groups:

START DATES

Start dates are expected and only finalized when the group is full. All groups are run via Zoom and are managed by a Lilac Tree staff member or volunteer supporting the counselor when possible. All Zoom rooms are waiting room enabled, start on time and regular attendance is required,


COSTS

Costs vary depending on length, size, and topic of the group. We are always adapting to client needs and ideas and we vary groups and thus costs. In general all meetings are $45, and payment is expected before the start of the group, but can be split into 2 half payments (commitment payment and 2nd payment). Payment plans or fee assistance can been arranged - just ask! Our Ila Chaiken Scholarship Fund offers partial fee assistance for each group on a first come, first served basis.

REFUND POLICY

Please note that we are unable to issue refunds, even for Commitment Payments, once a group start date is confirmed and communicated to a group, unless the space is able to be filled before the group begins.

If you are interested in any support program or want more information please

Call 847.328.0313 or email info@thelilactree.org

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Personalized Information Sessions

Attend a confidential 1:1 one hour-long Information Session with one of our trained divorce counselors.

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Divorce University™

Our annual 2-day virtual conference

42nd Divorce University™

April 27 & 28, 2025